today i've learn

about the meaning behind this quote;

A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That's why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet.
Truman Capote
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many times when i am at wit's end in a conversation because i am not able to express my overloading emotions in words, not as loud, not as fast talking, not as fast thinking.

i think over my sentences, construct them in my mind and sometimes a little longer. coz i don't want to be the insensible, sarcastic, wow-look-at-how-witty-i-am (not!) / razor-tongue self lover. Those snub, yuck!

Respect your standing, and other people's views as well, if you demand any respect at all.
Just like religion. Just because you believe in one God, it's doesn't mean others' beliefs are wrong at all.