on 3 things

1. get your facts right before speaking. and don't try to say you don't mean what you've said. yes, you may not have known better. but coming clean is a better option, than trying to make up excuses.

2. why does it bother one so much how other people spend their own money? their money, their issues, their choice. not yours. Money only brings pleasures when you spent it. yes, superficial. as long as they don’t borrow, steal or be in-debt. it's a free country.

3. put in effort for all relationship. don’t expect great and lasting relationship to come to your doorstep when all you do is "all talk, no action". it's a two way street for goodness sake! pick up the phone, make a date with your bestie. go for a drink with your sister - don't wait for your bf/friend/sister/mother to call you and get your updates.
And! busy is cliché.

Enough said.